This month we've been talking about success, failure, setting goals and dreaming big. We should all have big dreams to pursue, life should be interesting and more than just clocking in and clocking out. What is the point of life if not to try to reach for the stars? Reaching for the stars can be
We've all failed at one time or another. In all my years as a therapist, I've seen a lot of failure. In fact, most couples and individuals who seek counseling from me in San Francisco are here because they have failed at something. A failed marriage, lost job, broken relationship - people don't seek a
As a psychologist in San Francisco, I see people sabotaging their success on a regular basis. We all do it to one degree or another, but for some it becomes a lifelong strategy. Finding success in anything - career, relationships, education, etc.. is hard won. It takes dedication, hard work and commitment to achieve success
How are those New Year's Resolutions going for you? If you're like most people you've already quit your attempt to lose weight, get your finances in order and find the love of your life. If you're like most people you've given up on any lasting change and fallen back into the habits that have gotten
The New Year is here and if you're like most people you probably sat down on New Year's Eve or right after and scribbled down a list of New Year's Resolutions. If you're also like most people, you've probably already forgotten about them. Setting goals, or resolutions, is a great way to grow and I
Last week we talked about managing change, this week we'll discuss manifesting change. One is coping with change that has been forced on you, while the other is bringing change to pass. Change is scary, and yet many of us want to change at least one or two things in our lives. We don't like
